“It’s Not Love”: Coronation Street Exposes the Hidden Abuse in Todd Grimshaw’s Relationship

From romance to fear, the ITV soap delivers a powerful spotlight on coercive control in same-sex relationships

Love Turned to Control

What started as a promising new romance has become one of Coronation Street’s most harrowing storylines. Long-time character Todd Grimshaw, played by Gareth Pierce, is now trapped in a toxic relationship—and viewers have begun to realize that what’s happening to him is far more than emotional tension. It’s abuse.

Since 2001, Todd has been one of the Street’s most iconic LGBT+ characters. But in recent weeks, fans have sensed a disturbing shift in his relationship with new partner Theo Silverton. Behind closed doors, a different reality is unfolding.Coronation Street star hints at Todd's future without Eileen Grimshaw - Yahoo News UK

The Warning Signs Were There

Subtle at first, the red flags began to pile up. Todd withdrew from his friends. He became anxious, quiet, and visibly uncomfortable whenever Theo was around.

Then came the controlling behaviour. Theo began body-shaming Todd, critiquing what he ate, questioning his loyalty, and accusing him of flirting with other men. These weren’t just lovers’ arguments—they were warning signs.

The truth is now confirmed: Todd is the victim of coercive control and domestic abuse.Coronation Street reveals another worrying change in Todd and Theo's dark storyline - Yahoo News UK

The Mask Behind the Smile

What makes this storyline especially powerful is its complexity. As Gareth Pierce explains, the abuse Todd is enduring is emotional, psychological, and increasingly physical. Theo uses affection as a tool of control—lavishing Todd with apologies and sweet gestures right after causing harm.

“He isolates Todd from others,” Pierce said. “It’s not about Todd being weak. It’s about how abuse is built on manipulation.”

The actor, who has spoken with real-life survivors to prepare for the role, stressed that male victims of domestic abuse are often dismissed or misunderstood. In same-sex relationships especially, stereotypes around masculinity can prevent victims from being seen or believed.

“There’s still stigma,” Pierce explained. “People assume men should fight back or leave, but it’s not that simple. This isn’t about strength—it’s about control.”Coronation Street announces special episode as Theo's abuse of Todd gets worse

A Story That Needs Telling

Coronation Street has tackled abuse before, but this storyline feels groundbreaking. It brings attention to a form of domestic violence rarely depicted on screen: coercive control in LGBT+ relationships. The choice to explore it through Todd—an established and complex character—makes the story even more powerful.

As the tension builds, viewers can expect to see deeper conversations about abuse, shame, and survival. And for some, it may even reflect their own lived experience.